Ask Me Help Desk - Freaky dream!

OK I had a dream about my grandfather.. not the nice normal dreams I usually have this one really creeped me out. I'll start by saying that I don't know my father. Never met him in my life and I'm almost 24 years old. My grandfather raised me like his own child and he's more like a father to me then a grandfather. He always told me I was special to hiim and I was like a daughter to him. He died from Cancer 3 years ago. It wasn't a sudden death. We were all there and were by his side. I even got to sleep next to him the night before he died. ALthough he was all drugged up and probably didn't know I was there. We were as close as 2 people could ever be. We had this way of talking to each other with our eyes. We always knew what each other was thinking when we looked at each other. Well In my dream he was dead. Looked exactly the way I remember him when he died. I forgot who was there with us but all of a sudden she said "don't worry this happens alot when people die" Right after she said that he sat up verrry slowly.. his back was turned to me and he turned his head ALMOST completely around to look at me. I wasn't scared and I said I LOVE YOU. And he looked like he tried to say it back to me. But he couldn't talk. He looked VERY frustrated almost angry. But when I looked at his eyes they were all sparkly like when he was alive and I could see he was saying it from his eyes( I know that sounds weird but he used to do it all the time when he was alive) ANd I said(yelled) I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU and he just looked so frustrated and couldn't talk back.And that was it I woke up I just had to put it down and ask if anyone had any input about this because usually I don't remember my dreams but I remember every detail of this one Also 7 years ago he came to me in a dream and told me he was sick.. I didn't find out until 3 years later that he had cancer through his whole body.. This is the first time I've dreamed of him since around the time he passed awa (RIP).. :eek:

I understand how this freaked you out! This freaked ME out! I am truly sorry about the loss of your grandfather. RIP. :)

I've consulted my High Priestess about your question and her and I have come to the same conclusion: You're grandfather has something he wants to say to you. Unfortunately, he passed on before he had a chance to say it. If you believe in ghosts and spirits I suggest you try to contact him (and not through an Ouija board, use a real method). I don't recommend going to a "psychic" or "medium" because most of them are probably scam artists out to make a few bucks.

Yea we didn't talk much before he passed away only because I was stupid and drifted away from my family because I was being selfish.. NOONE is respecting his last dying wish which was to keep family traditions going and not to let anything change.. its horrible.. they don't even talk to my gramma anymore everyone is so far apart nothing is the same he was the backbone of our family and he never got to meet my son but how would I go about doing that?

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Originally Posted by GNL685

yea we didnt talk much before he passed away only because I was stupid and drifted away from my family because I was being selfish..NOONE is respecting his last dying wish which was to keep family traditions going and not to let anything change..its horrible..they dont even talk to my gramma anymore everyone is so far apart nothing is the same he was the backbone of our family and he never got to meet my son but how would I go about doing that?

Go about doing what? Contacting him? There are a variety of methods. The easiest method (at least in my opinion) is to try and scry to communicate with him. Another method is to simply summon his spirit, which is not easy to do. There are plenty of books on the subject, as its not easy to explain on sites like this.