There r these really cool gurls at school who like me. They want me to b their friend & everything. We talk, sit by them in lunch, etc. But, i go 2 a high class school and they all live by each other and constantly see each other. It's hard to get into a group so tight like that. :( I want to be in there to tho. I talk to them online and 1 of them, when i talk to her, is just a smalltalker. She is nice to me at school and stuff but i don't know what to say to her online. I have everything they do, but i would NEVER invite them over to my house. I live in a WAAAAAAAAAY smaller house then they do. If i invited them over they would die of shock and would never treat me the same again. it's so hard!!!!!! grrr i want these gurls to b my friends but they r in a whole different social class. they shope at abercrombie and fitch and i shop at hollister and kohls. I need help give me something that i can use for hanging out at the the outdoor mall or getting invited over to THEIR house. please help me!!!!!!!!!

~CSUfan4~

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There are these really cool girls at school who like me. They want me to be their friend & everything. We talk, sit by them in lunch, etc.

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That's great!

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But, I go to a high class school and they all live by each other and constantly see each other. It's hard to get into a group so tight like that. :(

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I don't see a problem, they've already invited you "in". Plan sleepovers, hang out on the weekend, go bowling, etc.

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I have everything they do, but I would NEVER invite them over to my house. I live in a WAAAAAAAAAY smaller house then they do.

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True friends don't care where you live or how you live [well unless of course you live in a box under the bridge and your suffering]. If these girl are all about material things and they really don't care about you then it's best to keep them as acquaintances and not friends.

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I want these girls to be my friends but they are in a whole different social class. They shope at abercrombie and fitch and I shop at hollister and kohls. I need help give me something that I can use for hanging out at the outdoor mall or getting invited over to THEIR house. Please help me!!

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Just be yourself. If this friendship means you have to pretend to be something you aren't, if it's based on competition, what others think or anything that'll just make your life more stressful [trying to get the latest clothes, handbag, accessory, etc] then it's better to not have "friends" like that.

MRS.S