Lights off, naked pleasuring my vagina with my fingers is getting boring..
Any ideas to spice things up behind closed doors?
What do you do to make yourself happy?

Toys! Toys! Toys! Vibrators are your friend!

And the occasional porn watching.

Yes... buy some toys... also a glass of wine before 'bed" is nice too.

Porn is good for some. Others get into sensual writing, written erotica. I prefer to picture my own fantasies, rather than have someone do it for me and film it.

Talk to someone hot on the phone! Using one's toys, or like a bursh handle or something... thinking of kinky stuff, working other parts of one's body!

A vivid imagination and an assortment of toys help me out. DVDs and magazines/books are good too.

But also try different positions. Go to different rooms to make it "new".

A Virbrator love. Toys do give you plessure. Or Try porn.

Try Using a vibrating toy on yourself. If you know where your g spot is that toy will work miracles I've seen it a million times

Instead of lights out in the bedroom. Why not lights on in the kitchen on top of the kitchen counter with all your curtains open??