Another Question,
Same guy, before he had a girlfriend. My close friend and I have both been talking to this guy we know and we didn't talk to him for a while, so we decided to both message him. (Yes, we both think he's cute, so there's a competitive aspect). I was talking to him, we had a great conversation about school, hobbies, music, movies, and I saw my friend talked to him about perverted things, and she lied about things that she has done to make her look like a slut which she ISN'T. So I message him, "Hey, what's up with you? :)", and I get no response, and she says "hey" and she gets a "Heyy, what's up?" UNFAIR. What did I do wrong, she has NO personality online, and I am talkative and smarter than her, why does he want to talk to her and not me HELP!

Because he sounds like he does not want a girlfriend but some easy sex, As soon as he finds out she is not a slut, he will be off to find one.

Depending on your age, some types of boys think easy score is a game and emotions and feelings mean little.

Also next time, if you are friends, don't go after the same guy, friendships are worth more than that.

And to add more, it's a human nature that when choosing someone, first thing that comes on the list is the attraction factor, being smart in all honesty just comes after and sadly considered just a bonus. If one didn't choose you, someone will.

You set yourself up by being in a competition for the same guy. That was dumb, so why are you mad because he chose her, over you??

Just so you know, most guys will go for the slut, over the brain, just because of the hope for the easy sex. I'll bet he knows you two are friends also, and may have been smart enough to pick up on your games.

Simple, he doesn't want a girl like you he wants a girl like your friend most likely due to his raging hormones.

Also, since this was a competition between you and your friend, you see she would do or say anything to win.

FYI the OP is 14.

Hmmm well I am just as attractive in ways as her (not to sound conceited), I don't think I'm wording these questions right... It wasn't really an announced "I'm gonna get this guy", it was more of a well "Lets see if he'll like both of us." I don't know.

We get your question but why even play that game because that's all it was. So I guess you got the answer to your question.

Let her have him. He probably tells all his friends about all the girls who are wanting him. He sounds like a jerk.. Hope you are old enough to know what you're doing.:rolleyes: