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  • Apr 3, 2009, 12:49 AM
    candle_light
    I am SO confused!
    OK I started a thread about becoming friends with some guys I used to know from school. Basically I like one of them but don't know if he likes me?
    Anyway to add on from it.. I saw him again last night and we were pretty much all drinking so for the first half of the night we were all just kind of chatting and stuff.

    But I'm pretty sure my friend likes him :( , like they always say stuff about how they are just mates etc but she flirts with him all the time.. like way more than anyone else and yeah..

    So we left after a while and went back to his place and stayed there. I slept with another friend (just slept! Nothing kinky), and she slept (innocent kind) with him.

    But I just don't know what to think because she already has a guy she likes!! but they're always hugging and hanging out and stuff.

    Then we had a conversation that went something like..
    Him- **** wants your number
    Me- really?
    - yeah but I told him to ask you himself
    - oh OK
    - yeah he thinks your sexy
    - sexy?
    - hahaha f*** yeah everyone thinks your sexy, like all the guys here think your sexy
    - *nervous laugh*, really?
    - hell yeah, I mean I just look at you, your cute as

    I mean we were all kind of playing around, like he was tickling me, putting his hands over my eyes, then outside he picked me up and hugged me, kissed me on the cheek, I went to sit beside him and he pulled me into his lap then we kind of leant right back and he grabbed my arms. Then my friend was walking away and we were like laughing/hugging like 'oh she's leaving you behind! ', and he was like no don't go, stay here with us. Then I went to cross the street and he was like jump on, then piggybacked me across to the car.

    Later that night my friend asked me to check a text on her phone, and I saw one from him that said something like 'yeah you can stay over, but we can't do anything, you know the reasons why' or something like that..

    Sorry if its so long... I don't know what to do though! :eek:
  • Apr 3, 2009, 12:50 AM
    candle_light

    Also I just remembered from last night, he said something about her getting jelouse about something we were doing.. so we'd better stop..

    Don't you think that a friend getting jelouse about her friend and another friend just hanging out is slightly odd?

    Like people usually only say that when they are going out with someone? So why would he say that? Or why would she get jelouse? And why would he care?
  • Apr 3, 2009, 07:15 AM
    CallMeBel

    Well he obviously likes you. But I think you should talk to your friend and ask what's up. If she says that they are just friends, tell her that you are interested in him and want to pursue him. Have they maybe dated before?

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