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  • Mar 29, 2009, 06:03 PM
    famousdork1
    My boyfriend and his friend. Having a affair?
    okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a week & four days and he has a friend whose a girl & they've have been texting and i looked threw his texts one time and they ahve been saying like, "no no, i love YOU more." & stuff like that. so i texted his friend whom i'm not that close with & she said "were just kidding around, were just showing each other how much we love each other as friends."

    i know he's not cheating, but i don't know how too react too those txt msgs.
    any idea what i should do?



  • Mar 29, 2009, 06:07 PM
    MarkwithaK

    Yeah... mind your own business. It's been 11 days! You cnnot expect him to alter his life for someone he has been dating for less than 2 weeks.
  • Mar 29, 2009, 10:10 PM
    grace14

    Haha, I know how you feel. This type of thing would bug me to death!

    I think there is more than a friendship going on here, and its certainly up to you, but if I were you, and you've only been dating for a week and four days, I would end it before you got too deeply involved. That way your prone to heatbreak.
  • Mar 29, 2009, 10:16 PM
    artlady

    I would trust him.If you can't trust someone you should not be together.
    A snoop never finds out anything good.
  • Mar 30, 2009, 10:37 AM
    cdedmundson

    This goes for everyone. When you snoop on someone you have to be ready to deal with what you find. If you find out he is talking to someone else you should be prepared to confront him about it. If he is not, you have to be ready to feel the guilt of not trusting someone who is doing nothing wrong. To the poster, talk to him. It has only been 11 days but if he is already talking to someone else it probably will not work out, but if it is just friendly and a joke then you should tell him it is not something you are OK with.
  • Mar 30, 2009, 10:39 AM
    JoeCanada76

    One week and four days. Your very young...

    What is your concern again? Sorry but I think your way too concerned for something that has just started...

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