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  • Mar 27, 2009, 03:37 PM
    liz28
    Strap-on!
    After talking to my friend about using a strap-on with her lesbian lover I want to know how do guys feel about a female using one on you? How was the experience?

    Also, I would like to hear from females that have used it on their guy.

    Any responses are welcome even if your against it or for it.

    Thanks for sharing,
    Liz
  • Mar 27, 2009, 03:41 PM
    artlady

    My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)
  • Mar 27, 2009, 03:47 PM
    liz28

    I had to spread the rep Artlady but that was too funny.

    I think my fiancé would do the same. He would be like the road runner. =)
  • Mar 27, 2009, 03:55 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)

    Ditto!!
  • Mar 27, 2009, 04:00 PM
    liz28

    Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol
  • Mar 27, 2009, 04:04 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol

    In a word... NO!! :eek:
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:05 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    In a word...............NO !!! :eek:

    Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
    He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:08 PM
    Alty

    I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!

    Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:11 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!!!!

    Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?

    They do like it a little.I think it's a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:22 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    They do like it a little.I think its a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?

    Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

    Interesting question me thinks. :)
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:28 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

    Interesting question me thinks. :)

    Quote:

    artlady agrees: I was going to say yes but the I thought about it and realized how complex it is.Good forum idea and then we can sticky it:)

    ...
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:50 PM
    Alty

    I like the idea of posting the question;

    Are women more trusting then men.

    Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)
  • Mar 27, 2009, 08:56 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    I like the idea of posting the question;

    Are women more trusting then men.

    Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)

    Dig that.I'm considering it now .O.K. the answer is yes.

    For complex reasons that we can explore.. :cool:
  • Mar 28, 2009, 11:29 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

    Interesting question me thinks. :)

    I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

    No way to back that up with statistics however.
  • Mar 28, 2009, 02:22 PM
    DSM521
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

    No way to back that up with statistics however.


    I agree, most guys would say no just out of response rather than even thinking about it. If my wife came to me and it was something she really wanted to try I would consider it. I trust her completely. I feel it is only right to take it into consideration. She has tried things I wanted to do sexually that were not her cup of tea.

    As long it is her with the strap on and not a man. Its not the act that makes you gay its who your doing the act with.
  • Mar 28, 2009, 02:47 PM
    friend4u178

    For me it has nothing to do about trust , my Ani has a function and that is to regurgitate food ::FULL STOP::

    There will be no poo pushing going on with this little black doggy :cool:



    Quote:

    Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
    He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p


    Ps:Glad you had a chuckle Artlady ;)
  • Mar 28, 2009, 02:58 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma

    He says NO!!
  • Mar 28, 2009, 04:48 PM
    Alty

    So far DSM is the only one willing to consider it. That's amazing to me.

    Okay girls, how about all of you! How many of us females are comfortable with anal sex? Yes, no, maybe, NEVER! What's your take on it?

    Oops. Liz, if I'm totally taking over this thread please tell me, I'll start a new one. I'm bad, so sorry, forgive me? :o
  • Mar 28, 2009, 05:10 PM
    liz28

    I am okay with anal and I actually was the one that introduce this experience to my fiancé. Before me he never did it.

    This might sound weird but when I first did it I thought it would make your butt bigger so that's why I was open to the idea. Than I find out it wasn't true because my butt didn't get bigger. When I told my mother this, after she got a good laugh, she said " I could have told you that".
  • Mar 28, 2009, 06:46 PM
    Mymama
    I like it, just use a lot of lub!!

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