Hey well my friend A****and I have been friends since the age of a out 4. Our families are very close and have always been and still are. Growing up together we grew like a strong friendhip. When we were kids every year until we grew out of it he chose me to help him cut his birthday cake. Back then we had puppy love crushes on each other. Well to speed things up we dated when I was 14 and he was 15. At the time we were both immature and my mom didn't want me dating but I did any way eventually we broke up and remainded friends. We didn't communicate for a while but then one day I messaged him on myspace. Come to find out he got mixed up and got a girl who he doesn't love pregnant. He has told me how she cheated on him 6 times and if it wasn't for the baby he would have left. Well the baby is adorable, but lately we have been talking and we really like each other.
He currently lives in another state because his babymama is crazy. She thinks he's going to marry her but he's like I'm not going to marry someone I don't love. Recently, his babymomz messaged me on myspace asking me do I have something going on with him cause of the insider comments we leave each other. I simply said no we have been friends since we were kids we grew up together. She asked me if I had feelings for him so I told her straight up yes I do. She replied well I'm A****s babymomz and wifey and I'm the only 1 he's intrested in unless he told you otherwise. All I said 2 avoid babymama drama especially since me and her live in the se area is I am aware of who you are and no he hasn't told me otherwise. I lied cause me and him want to give love another try! He is coming out here in a couple of weeks and he wants to hang out with me! What should I do because next year he turns 18 n he can then leave her alone and just strictly have a friendship wth her and see and spend time with his son and lay childsupport. I love him so much but I don't know if I'm ready for all of the babymama drama. We have strong feelings for one another how do I approach him how I feel about him and this situation! Plzz help me or any advice 2 give me will be greatly appriciated!
Signed he will always be my boo xoxo

First baby mamma will always be trouble... til she dies... because she will be in his life in a more sesitive way regardless of them breaking up. And as long as your straight up with what your intentions are you guys (all three of you) won't have as many issues. It is a lot of work dealing wit mothers and their kids. And "wifeys" wit their man. And it takes a lot of maturity. I did it wit my boyfrind when I was sixteen and me and his baby mamma was cool after a few times of really meeting as his girlfriend. You also got to take in to consideration that if he lives further away he is a guy, no offense, and boys know that they can get away with more. When the cats away. And vise versa for his lady. All I am saying is watch carefully because he may say the same things to her as he does to you about how interested he is. Keeping ladies on the side another thing I have noticed wit a lot of my friends including my yourger brother is that even if you are in bad relationship you don't choose who you love. My brother is in love wit this crazy and he tries to tell us that he is going to cut her loose but says that she is the only one to her. Or things are getting better but they are fighting louder and louder. He is trying to concile what he is doing because he really doesn't know how to feel. He doesn't have real answers just pay attention so that you don't end up on the same side as his baby mamma

Thank you for your advice! Well recently him and his babymomz got into a big argument about flaws in their relationship even though they weren't dating. His status on myspace is single and she deadlast on his myspace page and as for her he is deadlast on her page. Well he told me that he wants to be with me but he wants to talk in person when he comes out here next week