I love this girl sooo much that I literally did everything for her to see her happiness rite from vacations to taking care of her an loving her... I caught her lying to me for her ex she met him but did not cheat on me... we never had a single argument till then... when I ask her if she has anything to say to me she goes... I think we are better of friends our wavelenghts do not match... how can a person break off with you for just a small reason... I loved her so much and why doesn't she get this... my life has become her and I am not able to stop texting her.. she says she needs some time to think.. please give me some advise... will she come back to me or am I done...

Get me through this guys...

Do what she says and give her some space.

You need to give her, her space. As far as my experience goes, relationships don't last if there is an always "yes". I know this because I have been through this. You need to know when to let go. Past a certain point, you just can't recreate the magic. Period.

Your desparation will be a major deterrent and will drive her further away, desparation or too much possessiveness always has that effect on partners. Just keep cool and give her sometime, if she doesn't come back, don't bother her or bother yourself, move on. There's probably some one better for you.

Friends and relationships are two different things really. Mixing them will only result in heartache and confusion.

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Originally Posted by karthik0521

i love this girl sooo much that i literally did everything for her to see her happiness rite from vacations to taking care of her an loving her....i caught her lying to me for her ex she jus met him but did not cheat on me....we never had a single argument till then...when i ask her if she has anything to say to me she goes...i think we are better of friends our wavelenghts do not match....how can a person break off with you for just a small reason....i loved her so much and why doesnt she get this...my life has become her and i am not able to stop texting her..she says she needs some time to think..please give me some advise...will she come back to me or am i done...

get me through this guys...

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This is your problem, and as long as you do this, NO relationship you EVER have will work out. You need to have your own life, and try not to be a puppy dog waiting on the porch for her to open the door.

Also sounds like she is still involved with the ex... that is a no-go in my book, and my bags would be packed... SEE YA!!

Carry on... :cool:

Leave the girl alone and face the fact she doesn't feel the way you do. To you her reasons are small, but to her they are quite enough, so leave her alone and read the stickies of this forum, heal, and get a better life for yourself.

I'm not sure if you have any chance with her in the future, but you really have to back off and give her time and space.

If you become too possessive, it will push her further away and potentially beyond your reach. Show her that you respect her.