Hi There everyone I've been reading this forum for few days now it really helped me to understand where I stand in my Relationship... but I have a Question there's this girl I met online like 8 months ago we became very good friends with the time as I talked to her I started to like her and I think she did too she asked me to go and see her on thanksgiving so I could meet her parents too and her but I politely refused because I'm a very shy person I didn't think I could handle it very well she didn't mind it though and we continue talking and came more closer one day she asked me the password of my id I asked her why she needed my password she Said forget it I was just checking if you trust me or not afterward I gave her the password but she said I don't need it thanks and went politely. And few times I got mad at her too because she would talk to guys freely right atfront of me which mad me upset and I told her she said keep being jealous because of that I got upset and ignored her few times and than she called me and said she's is warning me if I keep ignoring her she won't talk to me again I apologized and things got back to normal well that's what I thought we would message eachothers everyday and talk on the phone and than her sister came to visit her and she told me she won't be coming online for one and half month and won't be able to talk to me either because of her sister using her cell phone I asked her to call me when she has time which she didn't but she came online few times and talk to me and when her sister left I got busy with work because I had two jobs and I couldn't go online for a month we did talk few times but not that much I would come home at 10 pm and go online for awhile say hello hi and go to sleep about 2 weeks ago I quit one of my job so now I have more time to sit online so we started to talk and samething happened again I saw her talking to guys freely which made me upset but I didn't say anything and just ignored her for one day next day I felt bad and sent her a sms she didn't reply I sent her 5 sms one day each in the morning saying hello how she's doing but she didn't reply and on Saturday she came online and said I have to talk to you I said OK listening she said you have to stop calling me pet names and sending her sms in the middle of night and she respect me but I shudnt sms her she's busy studying I was shocked I didn't say anything just said I didn't know you would mind... next day she came online and start talking to me again like nothing happened... now the real question I sent her an email Saying I liked her since I met her and care for her but she has hurt me by saying I should stop calling her pet names and sending her sms I turn my feelings around and just be a friend it was nice knowing you take care... she sent me email that she like me only as a friend and that's it and she wants to continue to be my friend she sent that email twice saying maybe I didn't get it the first time because I didn't reply its been four days now I haven't replied or talk to her so what do you guys think I should do? I do love her and care for her but it hurts me to see with other People
