My girlfriend of 4 years is IGNORING ME.Im Sad
Hey all,
I have a situation here that I need help with before I go with my heart, and NOT my head. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. We do not live together. I spend the night though on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday. Recently my job has been starting to cut hours by 20 hours a week. I have my bills, she has hers... we are both struggling... I don't think this is the issue though...
The problem is this. Saturday morning, she called me after she got off work and got upset at me because she thought I opened her mail... and honestly I DID NOT... so she said OK whatever and we ended the call... throughtout the entire Saturday we did not talk... however she "text" me and said that I told her I was going to call her... I never said that but you have to understand that her and I usually hang out every weekend. So we didn't talk all day Saturday, and she didn't call me on Sunday... she texts me Sunday night and says... "i think you are only over my apartment when its conveinent for you," "you dont care about me or what im going through with my probation and sobriety....she violated probation a 4th time.....SO i tried to call her sunday night 3/15/09 when she sent these texts and she would not answer the phone.....
Then on monday 3/16/09 I repeatly called. Because I could not get a hold of her, I called my cousin-in-law who is best friends with her, and my cousin-in-law said this to me: "its funny that you text me when you and her are going through problems, but you didn't text me when your cousin hit me or council your cousin for hittimg me 2 weeks ago".....and i said to myself where in the heck did THAT come from.....Im only looking for my girlfriend because she is ignoring my calls.....
On monday night 3/16/09, I gave up calling my girlfriend as I called ALL DAY. Then on Tuesday morning she sends yet ANOTHER TEXT saying: "my job says I'm slacking, my relationship is failing, you don't seem to care about me, the court system slapped me really hard for this violation"...so i texted her back and said "your relationship is failing because you are creating this... you are ignoring ME"... no response...
Today is Tuesday 3/24/09... its been 10 days since we verbally talked on the phone... I haven't received a text from her since last tuesdat 3/16/09 in the early AM...
Should I call again if I blew her phone up ALL last MONDAY and she didn't answer? What am I suppose to do? She didn't say she wanted to break up or anything... Again keep in mind we had a close relationship we talked everyday and spent time everyday... we couldn't hardly do anywhere because of financial issues...
I texted her just a minute ago to see why she has been ignorning me, but STOPPED myself and saved it in my text box draft... I decided to come on here and get your opinions after reading some of your valuable input on other people's posts...
Any input? Please help in any way you can. I would really take your valuable input to heart