Okay. So some guys believe that a first date is something like a relationship. And if you date different guys at the sametime you just no qood! So what's is a girl to do; because guys can date 20 at a time why is it wrong when girls do it?

-melissa:)

Melissa people have different beliefs. So a guy that believes a relationship as going to the movies might be a little to clingy for a girl that has an opportunity to date two people at once. He needs a lesson in picking up women and rule number one is don't cling, it's funny to watch but painful to experience. I say this because if a guy thinks he has you just after one date where's the excitement? I just talked to a man 3 years married and having WIFE trouble, proving that nothings sure even after that much time. I'm sure you had fun on the date but let him know that you're not that easy. If you were then the All-star cutie jock wouldn't want anything to do with you.

Dating is good clean fun, getting to know someone, and is no way a commitment to do anything, but enjoy yourself.

You are free to date whomever you please, and if they can't handle that... screw them.

Dating is just that, you are free to date various people until there is some commitment. What happens often is one person believes there is some relationship that is not there.

Communication is the main issue

As long as there is no commitment, feel free to date as many people as you like until you find one you really like.

And (coming from a guy) don't let anyone put you down, if it is wrong for you to date more than one person at the same time, then it should be wrong for a guy to do the same. Just because we are different sexes doesn't mean we shouldn't have the same moral values.