Recurring dreams after a breakup
Hi all,
This isn't so much a relationship questions as a psychological question. It's been a while since I've posted on here. Basically, I broke up form a three year relationship a year ago (almost to the day). In a nutshell, she began getting a little too friendly with one of her colleagues and I simply left as I didn't know how to handle it. The last I knew, she was going on holiday with him last June, so I would imagine it was getting serious. I haven't heard anything about her or him since.
It took me about nine months to get to state where I can confidently say I am "over" her. Basically I don't miss her anymore, and the feelings of pain attached to the relationship have subsided. I don't hate her anymore, and even the ridiculous doubts I once had about future relationships have gone.
The odd thing is that for the past 8/9 days I have had dreams about her EVERY night, usually involving her telling me that she wants me back or us getting together etc. Over the past year I have never had any conscious recolection of these sorts of dreams, so why the hell are they coming to me now that I couldn't care less about her? On the off chance, can anyone interpret dreams?