Basically just want to ask for any suggestions on keepings things fresh, lively, etc. ina relationship. You can't always rely on dinner and a movie or hanging out at a bar and stuff so I was just asking what are some other things that can be done as an activity or excuse to just hang out with your SO and talk about stuff.

What are some of the things that you have tried or heard of other people doing?

Thanks for any input.

As I'm sure many others will tell you, be mysterious and not too available. Don't contact her too often. Make your dates "few but intense", if you get my drift. It doesn't matter so much what you do in terms of where you go but laugh, joke, have fun ; in short, make it fun for her to be around you. Then leave her wanting more and make her wait a while before she gets it. You're busy, you have a life ; she needs to know that. Don't be clingy or possessive. You're a happy, well-adjusted guy with or without her.

1. Wat I think is re-freshing for a couple, is a weekend escapade somewhere :D

2. Cooking dinner together.

3. Going for drives, pic-nics, walks