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Why so late

MY girlfriend said that's she was pregnant with a baby and then I was like OK lets get a abortion because we are young. So then I had to pay 430 dollars. I always had a feeling that it was not my baby because I always used a condom. So I ask her was that my baby and she would cry and say yes. So every time we fight about something I would say your lying to me about that the baby is mind. So two months went by and I said it again that baby was nt mind I know cause I always used a condom and that other people don't use a condom and those girls don't get pregnant. Then she told me that she was raped and that she is sorry and she is going to pay me back. But I don't know if she is lying or not because I would always say that the baby was nt mind and she would cry and say yes it was why can't you believe me. Then she says that it was not yours it was the person who raped her and that's why she killed it and that she is going to pay me back and she paid me back. But I want to know if she is telling the truth about the rape? I want to know why did she did ' nt tell anybody ? Why now she just confess about the rape ? Do she love me ?

If she is telling the truth about the rape, persuade her to confront the authorities about the issue. If she really was raped she needs to come forward. Make sure she understands the implications of accusing someone of rape, and if she goes forward with it support her; but if she says she wasn't telling the truth then you will have your answer.

If she was raped she should be willing to do something about it legally.
She may have cheated or not ,there is no way to be certain.

She has paid you back and if you can not trust what she tells you and insist on calling her a liar perhaps you should rethink the relationship.

This is the 3rd time today that you have posted this same question and you have gotten responses each time. It is not necessary to keep posting the same question - the answers would be more helpful if everyone were answering on the same thread rather than 3 separate threads.

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Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

This is the 3rd time today that you have posted this same question and you have gotten responses each time. It is not necessary to keep posting the same question - the answers would be more helpful if everyone were answering on the same thread rather than 3 separate threads.

I didn't see the others threads,I think some people think this site works like a chat room.They keep putting it out there when they don't get an immediate response.Good call.