Ok so my friend tells me this teacher got a little accident, he doesn't tell them much no matter how they ask. He just tells them vague. So after the bell I ask him and he says the story, so now I know. Does he care if I tell people because if he does why would he say that. Does he deep down hope me to keep the secret?? :confused::confused::rolleyes::(:(

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Maybe he told you because he trusted you. I think if he wanted everyone to know he would have told the whole class. If you're unsure talk to him again

It wasn't much more detail that what me friend knew she a few years older

It's not your place to tell anyone, it's his. He told you in confidence, if he wanted others to know he'd tell them.

It's his story, not yours, so you keep it to yourself.

Well he didn't exactly tell me much more

It doesn't matter how much or how little he told you, it's still his story to tell to whomever he wants to tell it.

Gossiping is not a good thing, and that's what you'd be doing if you told.

Just keep it to yourself.

Good luck.

Ye I asked him he kept saying no-one needs to know so I won't tell anyone imagine if he read this that would be so funny

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Originally Posted by Whyastranger

Ye i asked him he kept sayin no-one needs to know so i wont tell anyone imagine if he read this that would be so funny

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Why would it be funny? Is realizing that someone you trusted wants to betray that trust funny?

I'm guessing that you're not quite a teen yet, so you're young, still learning, but some things you should just know, and keeping someone's secret is one of those things.

Obviously his trust in you was a bit unfounded.

No I'm not going to tell anyone, just if he knew how much I was puzzling over this, why he told me, because he trusts me not to tell anyone. I told him I won't tell anyone and I won't, what's wrong with that?

You told him you wouldn't tell anyone, than why did you even ask this question?

You already made a promise.

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No i'm not gonna tell anyone, just if he knew how much i was puzzling over this, why he told me, cos he trusts me not to tell anyone. I told him i won't tell anyone and i wont, whats wrong with that?

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You came here asking if you could tell.

This is a silly question anyway. For goodness sake, this isn't life or death, this isn't even a hard thing to figure out. You promised not to tell so don't tell. What's the dilemma?

Why are you puzzling over this?

At first I was puzzling whether he minded then I talked to him and now I feel better

How do I delete the question

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

You told him you wouldn't tell anyone, than why did you even ask this question?

You already made a promise.

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You don't get it, do you.
Before I made the promise, I was stuck.
When he told me, he didn't say anything about who knows or it being secret.
I had to ask him myself.
He gave me some hints.
I told him I wouldn't say anything.
Is there a problem?

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Originally Posted by Whyastranger

You don't get it, do you.
Before i made the promise, i was stuck.
When he told me, he didn't say anything about who knows or it being secret.
I had to ask him myself.
He gave me some hints.
I told him i wouldn't say anything.
Is there a problem?

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The problem is you're making a huge deal out of something that's a no brainer.

Why where you stuck before you made the promise? Just couldn't wait to
Spread the gossip?

This is a non issue, keep the secret, move on.

If this is the biggest problem you have in your life, then you're very lucky. No
Need to create drama when there isn't any.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Whyastranger

how do i delete the question

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YOU can't, but I will close it.