I've been seeking help regarding my sexual dysfunction issue for 10 years and every gynecologist I've seen didn't have a clue on how to help me. I feel that I was born with no sexual sensation in my body, I simply can't feel anything during any type of sexual act. I've been married to my husband over 2 years and I love him dearly, but I have no sexual desire, I can't get aroused, and I just don't have any type of sexual feelings in my entire body, and I was born that way.

I've taken different kinds of pills, lotions, creams and toys but nothing ever works. I am happy with my husband regarding other areas of our life, but sex is dead and boring for me, and he's very frustrated because I can't feel anything. I'm not numb down there because I can feel the pressure from his penis or his finger, and we also tried everything to stimulate my clitoris but it just sits there with no pleasure at all.

I've been with 5 other guys before I met my husband and it was always the same, boring and dead. They tried to make me feel something but it never worked.

I know the problem is not mentally because me and my husband love each other more than ever and we do a lot of romantic things together all the time, and the only problem we have is the fact that I can't feel anything. Even Oral sex and masturbation don't work.

I've been seeking help like forever and I don't know what to do. Do you have any advice for me and can you tell me what the problem is?

Have you actually seen a Doctor? you say you are seeking help, thats when you need to go to a doctor...we don't KNOW why this is happening to you, but it's likely a doctor, a GYN, will know and Can help...good luck..

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Originally Posted by bronzebabe

Have you actually seen a Doctor? you say you are seeking help, thats when you need to go to a doctor...we don't KNOW why this is happening to you, but it's likely a doctor, a GYN, will know and Can help...good luck..

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She does state that she's seen several gynecologists.

I recommend seeing a sexual specialist about this. There are too many things that COULD be wrong that without a professional examination and a thorough look into your background, NO opinion is going to medically correct without that information.

While people here could give you many opinions on what it MIGHT be, there is no way you're going to know for sure without a specialist helping you.

From the information given, it sounds like you have no connection to your passionate side. You MAY be stuck in the trap of "romantic" love and all the fantasy that is involved... not connected to your body and the reality of a real person breathing heavily for you.

Someone or something has quashed your passionate side... you will need to explore your past if you want to roll back your uptightness about your passionate side and learn to accept it.

Best wishes, :)

Have you sustained an injury to your clitoris at any point in your life? I'm wondering if there is some sort of nerve damage that occurred. Barring that, did any of your gynecologists ever suggest hormone treatments? Have you ever had blood tests taken to determine your hormone levels? I hope that things work out for you- it must be frustrating.

I see she said that GYN's have no idea what is wrong with her, maybe you need the Right doctor. I have worked for OB/GYN's for several years and it took me some time to find The doctor that was right for me.
I also agree that there Must have been Something that happened to you, but I couldn't tell you What.

Visit a doctor and check-up your sexual health.

Have you tried any anti-depressents? Prozac increases sexual urge and stimulation.