How do I deal with my mom
I HATE her more than anyone if the world
She doesent trust me and I have NO FREEDOM
Her hobbie is stalking me
And I wish I could live by myself.

How old are you?

Whenever you catch her in a good mood you should calmly ask her if she loosen your leash a little bit, and by that I mean to ask if she can let you have some privacy once in a while. Hope this helps

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Originally Posted by dumby

what i would try is to be a smart about it, and whenever she tells you to do something, record it in a notebook and use that geanst her. example: if you ask 2 spend the night at a friens house, and she says no bring out the notebook, and say something like, " Mom remember when i did the dishes? you owe me , and you should let me go out tonight."

or my favorute option SNEAK OUT!!!!!

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Lol are you serious do you really want her to sneak out?

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Originally Posted by dumby

what i would try is to be a smart about it, and whenever she tells you to do something, record it in a notebook and use that geanst her. example: if you ask 2 spend the night at a friens house, and she says no bring out the notebook, and say something like, " Mom remember when i did the dishes? you owe me , and you should let me go out tonight."

or my favorute option SNEAK OUT!!!!!

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You are right what you should is whenever she yells at you you should calmly ask iif you can have a little bit more privacy, you now a little bit af a longer leash

The problem at hand here is that your mother doesn't trust you. Underhanded things like sneaking out will only make it much, much worse for you in the long run. If you truly want to be given freedom then you are going to have to earn it, with her trust. This requires you to act responsibly. If she can trust you then she won't feel that she has to "stalk you" , but if you justify her fears then things will never change.

I'm confused, was part of the post deleted?

You HATE your mother?
What did she do to you?
Has she abused you?
Has she put a roof over your head and fed you since you are old enough to ask a question on line I assume you have a computer.
Hate is an awful word my dear and you should not use it lightly.

Your mother stalks you because she loves you!

You need to sit down and have a conversation about this
Ask her why she doesn't trust you .Let her know that she raised you well and you have good judgment,thanks to your Mom.

I suspect you don't hate your Mom ,you hate her rules .

Just be thankful you have a mother who cares enough to set rules to help you become a responsible and decent person.

So many parents just don't give a damn.

I can tell you, as far as moving out, the real world sucks... but you don't have to take my word for it, you will find out... in due time..