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  • Mar 16, 2009, 04:20 PM
    freeskier1776
    How Do I Get Her
    Me and this girl have been talking for a little but I don't know if she just wants to be friends or something more. I don't want to become too good of friends with her that she won't want to date me. Any help on what I should do would be appreciated. Thanks
  • Mar 16, 2009, 04:34 PM
    loved1

    I think you should take a chance. Ask her to hang out with you one night but be shady on the details and then do something romantic. If she didn't think of you as more than a friend before she will now. If you are too shy and the thought of this would just kill you try something less daring. Hang out and just happen upon something a couple would do try ice skating. If she allows you to hold her hand your chances are high keep it up. You could be brave and ask her directly, if your are embarrassed try joking around with her about being a couple and watch her reaction. If you get a no way or why not... well there is your answer. Hope this helps but remember being confident is HOTT! Maybe she's not in to you but the sooner you find that out the sooner you can move on and find someone who is!!
  • Mar 16, 2009, 04:35 PM
    neverme

    Get her?

    LOL

    Take a chance, nothing ventured nothing gained.

    Just tell her how you feel.
  • Mar 16, 2009, 11:28 PM
    none12345

    I agree with her. Find something creative to impress her or do something simple as asking her out and confessing your love for her. Most girls either wait for a guy to do that or they just don't see it that way until you do.

    Best of Luck
  • Mar 16, 2009, 11:49 PM
    heartbroke

    Do it the easy way, do some regular activity bring a camera and start taking pictures of you together. Review the pictures with her and mention how good you look together, then ask her what she thinks... put her on the spot if it makes you uncomfortable
  • Mar 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
    talaniman

    Ask her for a date make sure she has fun, see if she wants to go out again.

    That's the best way to see if she has an interest or not. If she says NO, then you don't have to go any further.

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