I work with this woman and I have feelings for her how do I know if it's a crush? My mouth goes dry when I try to talk to her, I can't seem to think cause my brain turns to mush, she's always in my mind. What is wrong with me?

Hi, BlakeS1976!

It sounds to me like it is a crush. Having a crush on someone can have all sorts of different symptoms.

Do you want to ask her out on a date? Do you know if she's available and not dating seriously someone else?

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hi, BlakeS1976!

It sounds to me like it is a crush. Having a crush on someone can have all sorts of different symptoms.

Do you want to ask her out on a date? Do you know if she's available and not dating seriously someone else?

Thanks!

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Ok, Blake,

I think you should ask her out! If your confused :confused::confused: and don't know what to say... just be yourself and act like she is one of your guy friends? :p

Find out if she is dating anybody! Don't MAKE IT TOO OBIVOIS! Be cool! :cool:
If she rejects you, you could probably still be friends! But I hope it works out! :(1! ;)

YOu know what to do!

Sounds like you took a liking to her and there is nothing wrong with that and is she is available you can ask her out but know the pros and cons of dating someone, if your get to that point, of dating someone you work with.

You just have a crush... wait before you pursue her though. People are different at work then they are at home. Get to know her better. Ask her to lunch sometime but not alone. See if you can get a work groupd together to start going to lunch and then after a week or so if you still have a crush on her ask her to lunch alone, Take things really really slow only because dating at work is so taboo and you don't want to be working with someone who makes you feel awkward.