Ok you have probably read some of my other threads. To start with we texted each other a lot, then a few days after the second date, the number of text she sent dropped almost stopped. Which she said was because she was busy. I will sometimes text her, but have now started to leave it until to she sends me one (usually a reply to the last message). When she does send me a text, if I'm with my phone ill reply straight away, but then it can take her anything from 1 hour to 3 hours to reply.
One time she asked me what I was up to at work, to which I replied straight, she sent another back soon after, then nothing from the reply I sent, about 90mins later she sent one saying 'yes I'm ignoring you hehehee... ' then replying to the message I sent.

If were on msn at the same time she will start a conversation. Yes we do chat on the phone as well lol.

I just don't know if this her playing to get, or quite what it is?

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the number of text she sent dropped almost stopped. Which she said was because she was busy.

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anything from 1 hour to 3 hours to reply.

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Perhaps, she is not sitting by her phone 24 hours a day 7 days a week?

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I just don't know if this her playing to get, or quite what it is?

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You sir, are OVER analyzing the situation.

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Originally Posted by ONLYHERETOHELP

You sir, are OVER analyzing the situation.

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Lol I just read some threads on women playing hard to get etc. by doing similar things.

Perhaps she is.

Back off though, and relax. It sounds like she's a busy woman.

Is this your girlfriend?

Either way when she texts you do not text her back right away. Let it go for awhile.

If she doesn't texted you back don't ask her about it, because when you do she knows that it bothers you and you get responses like, "yes I'm ignoring you...heheheheeeee."

Chill out!!

By telling her it bothers you your making her think your just sitting there like a little Puppy Dog waiting for her reply.

Chill!

If I was on her side of things I'd be starting to find you a bit weird if you've only been out on two dates and your telling her her texting speeds are not up to your standards!?

Just text her, if she doesn't reply then put your phone away and go do something productive instead of sending more texts.

Text messaging is fun. Text messaging is addicting. It's fast and totally cool.

But... it, along with Facebook, I'm, and myspace, are the greatest detriments to REAL relationships of the 21st century.

I keep my phone with me at all times and instantly answer pretty much ever text I get. Except when I'm in a meeting, or eating with friends, or in the middle of a project.

She could be really busy. She could be ignoring you.

Bottom line, stop relying on texting so much and give the girl a call. Ask her for coffee. Go from there.

Don't be the run-of-the-mill guy. Be different. Avoid machine gun texts and think outside of the box. :)

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Originally Posted by HistorianChick

Text messaging is fun. Text messaging is addicting. It's fast and totally cool.

But... it, along with facebook, im, and myspace, are the greatest detriments to REAL relationships of the 21st century.

I keep my phone with me at all times and instantly answer pretty much ever text I get. Except when I'm in a meeting, or eating with friends, or in the middle of a project.

She could be really busy. She could be ignoring you.

Bottom line, stop relying on texting so much and give the girl a call. Ask her for coffee. Go from there.

Don't be the run-of-the-mill guy. Be different. Avoid machine gun texts and think outside of the box. :)

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But it's so hard! They make the keyboard so friendly for my thumbs, I text everyone. It's an addiction, I need help. I'm going to get help, I'm going to go text the help number now

Aw darn, I failed at it again:-(

Your way to deep for a few dates, my gosh guy, date someone else, or do something beside texting her.