I met sum guy on the net a couple of months ago, and he use to call and text all the time, we recently met up an had sex, and the phone calls and texts are not so often from him, we met up the other night, I went to his place I text him the day after we had sex, but he hasn't replied, does he really want me, he's affectionate when we are together, he seems abit distance now we have met up.

Sad to say, but you might have already given him what he wanted: sex...

Sex always complicate things. I am sorry to inform you that you are just his booty call and you will be hearing from him the next he wants some again.

However to answer your question "how to tell if he wants you" maybe if you keep sex out the mix you would be able to tell. You might want more from this guy but he doesn't. If anything your allowing yourself to be use in hopes of him liking you.:-(

You're a booty call.
He's probably distant because he doesn't want more than a casual sex relationship. Not likely that he will change his feelings for you.

Thanks 4 your replies, but am I his booty call, because when I went 2 his the other night, he bought me a takeaway, he got me chochs, a bottle of wine, he cooked for me the next day, do you fink he mite be scared of something?

All because you're his booty call doesn't mean that he has to be nasty or disrespectful to you outside of the bedroom. As far as him being scare please. What do you think he's scare of? He is not afraid to be arounwd you when he wants sex.

I tell you want. Since he doesn't answer when you call him(btw, what do you think that means?) leave him a message stating you want sex and watch how fast he replies.

Time to get out of your fantasy and get into reality.

DO what Liz said it will work.

Yeah he text me before and asked how I was doing, but I've not replied, what should I do guys

There was a plan given, you can either attempt it or continue contact without sex and see how long it takes before he is no longer contacting you.

You gave it up to quick. A man respects a woman who waits and men only want to be with a woman they respect.