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  • Mar 15, 2009, 02:12 AM
    LoongBong
    How to get a girl you are not in the same class with to know that you like her?
    Somebody help me. I like this girl who is not in my class. I rarely see her. Whenever I do, I kind of look at her until a corner or something. One time I did, she looked away and put down her fringe, like flatten it to cover her eyes or something... I duno. Is that a good sign? I walked past her once and we saw each other and she smiled. I looked for a while then looked at something else. Just to tell you, she smiles to nearly anybody she sees...
  • Mar 15, 2009, 02:27 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma

    How can you like someone that you don't know? You are attracted to her. I don't know her so I don't know if she is sending you signals. Why not just ask her out to lunch?
  • Mar 15, 2009, 05:42 AM
    talaniman

    Say hello is a good start, and then talk to her.
  • Mar 15, 2009, 06:27 AM
    LoongBong
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma View Post
    How can you like someone that you don't know? You are attracted to her. I don't know her so I don't know if she is sending you signals. Why not just ask her out to lunch?

    I don't mean I don't noe her. I mean wer not very close. Wer not friends. We don't even go to the same class and we've never talked.
  • Mar 15, 2009, 06:32 AM
    LoongBong
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Say hello is a good start, and then talk to her.

    I don't think I even have the guts! I duno...
  • Mar 15, 2009, 09:30 AM
    neverme

    Well you could mind vibe her?

    Come on dude, if you don't want to talk to her she can't know that you like her and nothing will come of it.

    If you keep staring at her she's just going to think you're weird.

    Might seem harsh but it's true.
  • Mar 15, 2009, 12:32 PM
    Dare81
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LoongBong View Post
    I dont think i even hav the guts!! I duno....

    Hi How are you doing, can get the conversation started, then you can go with the flow.
  • Mar 15, 2009, 01:12 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LoongBong View Post
    I dont mean i dont noe her. I mean wer not very close. Wer not friends. We dont even go to the same class and we've never talked.

    If you've never talked to her, you don't know her. You might know her name, that's not the same as knowing someone. The best thing that you can do to get to know someone is sitting down and talking. Whether that be lunch, the mall, a drive, whatever.
  • Mar 15, 2009, 03:45 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LoongBong View Post
    I dont think i even hav the guts!! I duno....

    Let's just assume you guys get together, get married and stay together for the next 55 years until you die. Do you think at the funeral she's going to say, "I loved him so much, but I just wished he would have talked to me at some point?"

    Come on. You post a question about getting her attention and you won't even talk to her? How is she supposed to be attracted to you?
  • Mar 16, 2009, 07:42 AM
    unspeaken21

    She smiled... who cares if she smiles to everyone...
    Basically she did the first step and "talked" to you..
    When you finally get the balls to go and talk to her it won't be so hard since she basically gave you the invitation.
    Whenever you see her alone or sitting somewhere (even if she is in a group) go up and talk to her...
    Is easier than you think... and if you are nervous, don't worry because she will think its cute... just introduce yourself..
    Good luck!
    Let us know how it goes... Don't let us down...
  • Mar 16, 2009, 10:47 AM
    Romefalls19

    Just say "hi, how are you"

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