I gave birth at 19, after my breast sagged,I left the father of my kid because he said he is a boob guy & cheated with ladies with big boobs I couldn't stand and left.For the last 8years am scared to have any guy as I had one but when he touched my boobs the next day he texted me and said he is not in love I felt bad I have used a lot of breast enlarges which don't work,I don't have a love life as am scared of being hurt or dumped, I feel horrible any help as am pretty but my breast let me down.For the last 7 years I have never had sex for fear of someone seeing my small boobs,but I had some months with my ex who is married & I don't want to do it again with him but he didn't seem to mind but I was embarrassed as they are to small,sagged and ugly,actually they look like a grand mothers.Before I had big ones and the father of my kid would just suck them all through can he be the cause of them sagging.Am turning 29 without a love life because of fear of my breast any suggestion as I don't like surgery also.Just creams without side effect please help am desperate.

There are exercises that you can do to make them a bit firmer. But as far as turning back the clock ten years, sorry that can't be done.

I know it sucks, but it's time to realize that you aren't 19 anymore, neither is your body.

Focus on the positive. If you exude confidence then you'll get a date no problem.

Hello k:

I don't know about the guys you know, but I LOVE little knockers. Anything more than a mouthful is a waste.

excon

First of: you really need to work on yourself esteem. And I do believe that counseling might be a good idea... or maybe some self help programs to work on yourself image. You have no reason to be self conscious about it, but you have been treated in a way that is awful.

Secondly, like c.mommy said there are ways to make them firmer (by exercise)

Third; a lot of guys like small breasts, personally I have a couple of small ones but I've never heard any complaints from the guys I've dated/been in a relationship with.

I hope this was a little helpful! Best of luck!

I think you are overly fixated on your breasts for some reason.

Great sex is in your mind, girl.

Why don't you get some professional help so you can learn ways to build up your confidence. Don't let some negative idea ruin your sex life for no good reason.

My best wishes to you, :)

My wife is an "A" cup... I knew this when I met her, I knew this when I married her, and I've known this the entire period of our marriage.

Big boobs are nice, little boobs are nice, medium boobs are nice. What matters is the woman they are attached to. That's the person you live with, not the boobs.

And most boobs will sag as you get older... its a fact of life. Mature guys know this and deal with it an a mature manner... unlike the guy you dated.

I agree with everyone here. Women's bodies come in all different shapes and sizes and we have to accept what we were given. Some men like big butts, some like long hair, some like fair skin... there are different men for different women.

This guy made a sorry excuse for being a jerk. Any mature man realizes that women's bodies change after having kids.

If your child father left you because of your boobs then he is a jerk and so is the other guy.

So you have to stop dealing with jerks and deal with a real man instead and love the skin your in.

I think the sexiest thing about a woman is how she presents herself, confidence and showing off all of her assets is an indescribable turn-on, it's magnetic. It has nothing to do with big/small/saggy/rounded/pointed breasts.

I admire well rounded breasts, but I have had women with huge and tiny breasts-all of the atttraction was about how these ladies presented themselves. The men (and I use the term loosely), that you have unfortunately come in contact with are immature di**heads-get some confidence, hold your head high and start attracting men who have equally high self-esteem and who will not put you or your beautiful breasts down.

Cheers.