I think that my mother was adopted when she was born. I think this for several reasons, one: she looks nothing like her parents,two: there are no pictures of her mother pregnet,three: in the picture of her mother and father with her the day that they came home from the hospital, her mother is standing and looks perfectly healthy. Not like she just had a baby. Four: whenever I mention the subject of adoption her mother shies away from it and changes the subject. This is just a theory I have come up with and I see that if it is true my grandmother doesn't want it told, I just want to know for myself. If it is true my mother has no clue and I would like to keep it that way until her mother tells her if she decides to tell her. Is there any way for me to figure this out without bringing anyone into it?