Well I live in a very small town were everyone knows you and what you have done so you I do have one friend who I talk to but she live 30min from me so keeping up on a good life stile for me is very hard. I have tried to get more friends but every one that I meet ends up being in jail or something else where I kind of don't want to be their friend. I am not needy I am just very confused. No one can watch my kids or they don't want to because they are very hard to handle. I just want to see what I could do to get my husband to feel not so over whelmed with life and work. It is hard to try and get him to relax. I just don't know how to help him.:eek:

Does he ever have any time just to be alone. I don't think women get this, but sometimes we just want to sit down and watch TV and not think for a few hours, without interuption.