I went skating with my friend and she invited this guy:) ( they aren't dating) but he has a girlfriend. This boy and myself talked the entire time and he was flirting with me. After we left he dumped his girlfriend and kept leading me on, and I thought we might get together . Then my friend (that took me skating) got him and his girlfriend back together. :confused: Now he with his girlfriend but till leads me on flirts with me and everything but doesn't tell me how he feels and he knows I like him. What do I do?
I don't want to break them up because I would feel bad and plus I don't even know the girl.
How do I get him to like me without hurting her. :confused:

Simple. Don't pursue him until he breaks up with her again... since you agree it is rude and inconsiderate to try and break them up. Chances are if they broke it off once and are not serious or have not been dating a long time... then they just might break up again.

Stay a good friend until an opportunity prevails but don't get physical with him... if the flirting evolves to that then talk to him and say "I like you and would like to be with you but I can not continue this relationship until you break it off with your girlfriend because that isn't right of you or me and it is not fair to her."

I am just wondering if the same thing could happen to you one day if you date this guy?

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Originally Posted by k-cutie

I went skating with my friend and she invited this guy:) ( they aren't dating) but he has a girlfriend. This boy and myself talked the entire time and he was flirting with me. After we left he dumped his girlfriend and kept leading me on, and i thought we might get together . Then my friend (that took me skating) got him and his girlfriend back together. :confused: Now he with his girlfriend but till leads me on flirts with me and everything but doesnt tell me how he feels and he knows I like him. What do i do?
I don't want to break them up because i would feel bad and plus i dont even know the girl.
How do i get him to like me without hurting her.?:confused:

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He already likes you. That's why he's flirting with you.

If the question is how to get him to DATE you without hurting "her," you can't.