Originally Posted by
ka1
You need to see a therapist. I can't condone an emotional affair, considering that it may have happened to me, but you hit her. I want you to sit and think about that, and then about this. What type of pedestal did your wife have you on, before you hit her? Think on that, because that is key here. If she felt the same for you, and based what you've written there is no reason to not think it at this point, then the man she thought you were disappeared in her eyes that night. And has been carrying that. You both need therapy, and fast. it will be better if you suggest it. Most men won't and women know that, so it will go a long way in her mind.