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  • Mar 13, 2009, 05:04 PM
    ultra advice
    I don't know what to do


    I really like this girl and I know she likes me

    And we were texting and flirting for nearly 2-3 weeks (but I've liked her for a few years)

    I've known her all my life

    And so I walk into town on a Saturday morning as I always do and I run into her with 1 of my best mate`s snoging :eek::eek::eek:

    And I don't know what to do any advice because I know I liked her longer than him

    And it really tore me up inside and what's worse is they both just walked past me without a word

    I want him to be happy and her to be happy but I feel like I was used some how

    Any advice :confused::confused::confused:

    p.s id appreciate no BS advice
  • Mar 13, 2009, 05:37 PM
    neverme

    If she really liked you she wouldn't have done this, she'd have waited move on.

    Try to look at this as a good thing, you could have wasted more time and energy on this girl, now you're free to find someone that really likes you.

    If your 'friend' knows you liked her for so long you can just keep trucking on past him too.
  • Mar 13, 2009, 05:44 PM
    friend4u178

    Did you ever tell her you liked her?
  • Mar 13, 2009, 06:02 PM
    ultra advice

    Freind4u178

    I tolds her a good few tymes I liked her but I didn't want to rush in

    But all the good that done me

    Tnx for the advice you have all given me so far
  • Mar 13, 2009, 06:08 PM
    friend4u178

    So if you told her and she didn't act upon it maybe she's just not as into you as you are to her. Her actions certainly suggest that.
  • Mar 13, 2009, 06:38 PM
    ultra advice

    But the thing is we both really liked each she told me and it ended up like this :(
  • Mar 13, 2009, 06:39 PM
    neverme

    You said you wanted no BS...

    Well it did, get over it, obviously these people don't really care for you.

    Time to move on.
  • Mar 14, 2009, 10:46 AM
    talaniman
    She obviously didn't feel as strongly as you do. Move on, and turn your attention elsewhere as you can't control the feelings of others.
  • Mar 14, 2009, 08:04 PM
    I wish

    Looks like she's not as into you as you thought.
  • Mar 14, 2009, 08:29 PM
    Diehardrocks92
    Let them be togather and move on xx
  • Mar 14, 2009, 08:32 PM
    Ash123

    Get another girl.

    That'll get her attention.

    You all may snog one day if it is to be :-)
  • Mar 14, 2009, 09:56 PM
    none12345

    This is just my opinion. She might want to stir something up in you and let you know that you should act now or you would lose her forever. Either that or She's tired of waiting for you. Would u say she likes you more than a friend? If so than that's probably the situation is right now. You've known her all her life and if you act now it will be obvious you would be the person she would want to be with? Don't take my word for it though but here's a little something you can think about

    Good luck =P
  • Mar 15, 2009, 06:35 AM
    I wish
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by none12345 View Post
    This is just my opinion. She might want to stir something up in you and let you know that you should act now or you would lose her forever. Either that or She's tired of waiting for you. Would u say she likes you more than a friend?? if so than thats probably the situation is right now. You've known her all her life and if you act now it will be obvious you would be the person she would want to be with?? dont take my word for it though but here's a little something you can think about

    Good luck =P
    If you choose this route, just be extra careful. None12345 is kind of suggesting that you were a chicken in the first place, so the girl is testing to see if you can become brave. This is a possibility, but I highly doubt it. Unless you are really sure that she likes you more than a friend and is waiting for you to act, this might not be the best move since she already has a boyfriend and you will become a boyfriend stealer. Is that what you want other guys to do if you were her boyfriend?
  • Mar 15, 2009, 12:25 PM
    none12345
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by I wish View Post
    If you choose this route, just be extra careful. None12345 is kind of suggesting that you were a chicken in the firts place, so the girl is testing to see if you can become brave. This is a possibility, but I highly doubt it. Unless you are really sure that she likes you more than a friend and is waiting for you to act, this might not be the best move since she already has a boyfriend and you will become a boyfriend stealer. Is that what you want other guys to do if you were her bf?
    Yah true that. I know how that feels a guy stole my ex from me but there's a possibility though. Just like what Iwish said, if you know for sure that she likes you more than a friend than maybe its time to act if not than be there for her as a friend and she ll see that you were always there for you and might even fall for you. Who knows the future is unpredictable

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