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  • Mar 13, 2009, 11:39 AM
    armywifebondank
    Need to know if I am Pregnant. My husband won't like it.
    My husband and I have been married only 4 months. He's not ready to start our family yet. However, we had sex just three days after my period. Usually we use a condom but he didn't want to and instead he pulled out- only he didn't pull out in enough time so some got in me. I'm curious on if I could be pregnant. I'm so worried it's making me queasy. It's been two days since then. I really need to know so that I can ease my husband's worries as well as mine.:confused:
  • Mar 13, 2009, 11:43 AM
    Justwantfair

    You aren't going to know if you are pregnant until you miss a period.

    There isn't any immediate answer for your situation.

    Sidenote: Does your husband not like to accept responsibility as it was his choice to not wear a condom and the "pull-out" method is really just russian roulette? Why aren't you on birth control as well, if your husband isn't fond of condoms?
  • Mar 14, 2009, 02:00 PM
    purekate

    Please don't worry. If he was going to risk the pull out method, it isn't your fault hun. Yes people can get pregnant 3days after your period, but its different for everyone. You would need to wait for your periods, if they are late or you bleed early (implantation) then you can take a test. Good luck
  • Mar 14, 2009, 03:01 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    First pull out is not a method, it does not stop all the early sperm that is in the fluid long before.

    So he wanted to have sex with no birth control, so it is time he understands what happens.

    If he things pull out is some sort of birth control, tell him to learn more

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