This guy Im seeing on a casual basis keeps blowing hot and cold. One minute he wants me the next he doesn't. Im okay with this now after much heartache in fact Im pretty much at a point where Im past caring but Id love to play him at his own game and give him a taste of his own medicine. Has anyone out there got the better of a guy that's like this.

Why are you going to bother? If he wants to play a hot/cold game, let him play it alone or play it with someone else. Why stoop to that level with him? If you respect yourself, walk away, there is no point in participating this childish behavior.

Here is a way to play, and win this game: Ignore him... FOREVER!!

Game over... :cool:

Why waste time on games, when you can be having a great time, with a fun person?

Could have dual personalities. If you want to deal with this then from my personal experience leave him alone and let him come to you. That way the ball is in your court. If you don't want to deal with it then just plain and simple... leave