My husband beats me up every week , I am 50years old and he is 49 years old I can't go out , can't wear what I want , can't talk or meet up with my kids from another marriage. I have a 3 year old granddaughter that I have never seen. I need help to leave him and set up somewhere else . Any idears??

This man is horribly abusive to you. Yes you NEED to get out. Have you ever called the police on him? Are you okay right now? You can't let this sorry excuse for a man do this to you.

I don't know your what country you're in, or your area, but there must be a battered women's shelter. There should also be a victims assistance unit at your local police dept. They will be able to tell you where there is a safe house you can go to, until you can make other arrangements, and they will help you with that.

I would do that immediately. Your safety is first and foremost!

Edit:: Also look in your phonebook for the number to a crisis or abuse hotline. If you can't find it, call 411 or even 911 if you are in immenant danger!

Please keep on talking to us in the meantime, and let us know what is going on right now.

Are you in danger right now? Is your husband right there with you?

Stormdamage? Are you okay! Please let us know!

Call the police and get help immediately

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Call the police and get help immediately

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I'm afraid for her. She was still online all the time I was talking to her, but she was not answering. I hope she gets back to us if she can, or I hope the cops are at her door.

How long have you been married?
You sound like it is not a big deal that your getting beat up weekly, all you call it is bullying but if this is happening it is abuse and you need to get out.

How long has this been happening? If your truly feel like your in danger then the only way to deal with this is to call the cops and get out. There is shelters and programs that will help get you housing and protection...

Joe

You can contact a womens' shelter.

You will have somewhere to stay, they will set up a life recovery plan for you and help with your contact with the police

Just leave all of your things and go.

Go now, your life and sanity is more important than any material things you may have.

They can be recovered by the police at a later date.

Please keep us updated.

It is NEVER OK for a man to beat a woman. Ever. Period.

You know that you need to get out... PLEASE, for your own safety, get out ASAP.