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  • Mar 12, 2009, 03:35 PM
    hurtandhealed
    I don't know if he really wants to b together thou.
    OK so here it is...
    I really like this guy and I can tell he likes me back... and our best frn even told me he thinks I'm really hot and you know stuff like that! And the day we met he lent me his belt, after I said "i'll love u forever and ever and longer!" but he wouldn't give it to my other best friends to borrow(this belt is in awesome!) but he kidna likes her too and he's known her longer, and he told me he hardly knows anything about her... well the 2nd time we hung out we couldn't stop glazing at each other, and ! And later that week he told me he couldn't help it because he just loves my eyes.. anyway! He came over and wanted to hang just me and him... well we did for a bit! And he brought a scary movie over! And me and him were just going to watch it! My sister and her frns came home so we went in my basement... played spin the bottle! And like that! There was about 6 of us, 3 girls and 3 guys. We sat in a circle, played the game, we all kissed each other basically well little pecks on the mouth, then when he spun it finally landed on me... we made out every time. And we were the only 2 that did every time! My frns said to lower the time we kissed to 5 seconds but we went for 12 then my frn pulled me away... and my frns counted out loud every time! Then the next round came... didnt kiss at all because the bottle never landed on us. But he sat next to me.
    Then everyone had to leave! And for a few min it was just me and him. So I asked what he wanted to do or something and he said he didn't know or care! Then he had to leave because he got picked up, but before he left he kissed me again... and keep in mind we didn't have to make out again.. but I don't know, I can't tell if he wants to be together thou. I hope so, because I always put my head on his shoulder and he never cares and he puts his head on mine..
    I don't know but there's a little age diff... in a few months it'll be about 3 yr diff... which makes us sad.. I don't know help!
  • Mar 12, 2009, 03:42 PM
    O_Troubles

    How old are you?
  • Mar 12, 2009, 03:48 PM
    hurtandhealed
    In 13
  • Mar 12, 2009, 03:49 PM
    Curlyben
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  • Mar 12, 2009, 03:57 PM
    O_Troubles

    OK so your 13 you want to start getting into relationships, just don't go fast, your all ready making out with this guy don't give him the wrong idea don't be "slutty" trust me at 13 you give it up your going to get labeled at school or something. You also said he might like your other friend well find out ! You don't want to hurt your friend chicks before s your friends are more important then a guy. Also relationships are about the future. Not all relationships you go into are going to last a long time but that's kind of the point. You want a guy you can trust and talk to and have fun with as a friend not sexually, when your older you can take it to the next level. Its also about finding out what u like in a guy and what you want in your future husband. Its OK to date and expirement but honestly like you live for 80+ years you only have 1 first kiss 1 first love 1 first sexual experience you can wait. Would you rather a guy call you up tight or a slut? Just take your time maybe get your parents involved ask them what they think let them meet the guy ask them to help plan dates for you guys they can take you to movies or bowling or pre teen dances things like that just think about it though I'm sure you know a girl in your school that gets made fun of for being slutty or there a rumors about some don't be that person OK? Value yourself your 13 your not going to find true love for a while so take your time have fun and chill girl!
  • Mar 12, 2009, 04:45 PM
    liz28

    Your too young to be in a relationship and to deal with the emotions that comes along with it. What does your parents say about you dating?

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