OK me and my ex have been trying to get bak together for awhile, we've been making out behind everyone's bak, and she did go on a few dates and says and she isn't serious yet, but today when I was talking to her she was like "do we hav to do this?" and I was like sure so we made out but on msn she was like ignorin me and won't tell me y? What is going on?

Has she ever told you that she wants space? A girl who sometimes ignores means they need time to think. I would just let her do her own thing, and see what happenes

I don't know if I read you correctly; you and your ex have been trying to get back to together... but she is still seeing other people?

If she is suddenly ignoring you, especially after she said that you shouldn't be doing what you are doing... well she prob has second thoughts about getting back together...

What you prob need to do (and yes this is only my perspective and my advice) is to try to talk to her face to face seeing as she is ignoring you on msn... worst case senario you need to ask her if she wants space, or has second thoughts... or at least to ask her where she is standing when it comes to you.

Because if she is getting ready to move on, you need to know so that you won't just sit there; hoping and waiting for something that ain't never going to happen.

Seems like she had a change of heart and there is nothing that you could do about it but move on. Sometimes things don't go as planned.

Maybe your ex should stay your ex, if she isn't your girlfriend she doesn't have to talk to you. Why bother. She seems rude she seems like she may be fooling around, does she not want to be with you in public. Doing everything behind everyone else's back is not smart! Not healthy. Get a better girlfriend honestly.

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Originally Posted by O_Troubles

maybe your ex should stay your ex, if she isnt your gf she doesnt have to talk to you. why bother. she seems rude she seems like she may be fooling around, does she not wanna be with you in public. doing everything behind everyone elses back is not smart! not healthy. get a better gf honestly.

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Yha but I REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE HERA and I can't stop liking her for sum reason

Stop focusing on her and your be surprise how your be able to get her off your mind. Sometimes everyone you like doesn't like you back because you can't have everything you want.

So then talk to her if she won't commit then you shouldn't have to get your emotions played with I really really really liked my ex but as soon as we broke up I could see who he was you need to step back before you can realise who your with , when your with the person you defend them when your not you find there flaws right? Think about it

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Originally Posted by O_Troubles

so then talk to her if she wont commit then you shouldnt have to get your emotions played with i really really really liked my ex but as soon as we broke up i could see who he was you need to step back before you can realise who your with , when your with the person you defend them when your not you find there flaws right? think about it

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She dusn't have any and even if she did I wudn't care :S

Ex is an ex for a reason.

Do you really want to put yourself through this. Your ex wants the cake and eat it too.

It is time to say goodbye to the ex...

More then likely she's just playing with you.. sorry but ever heard "whos gonna buy the cow, when you give out the milk for free"?

Try not making yourself so available, then see what her rea motives are, I mean she is your ex correct?