Tell Grown Kids Moms Cheating?
Hi,
My wife and I have had a relationship that has been going downhill rapidly the last 4 years. Lost my business, lost my house, had an operation, 7 jobs, great credit to poor, etc. During this timeframe I had begged my wife to get a job to help, Finally did after 3 years, but after we lost everything, and then no help to me. I was working 80 plus hours a week trying to make ends meet. I started drinking more than normal, but not stupor type stuff. However it was played up in front of my kids when they still lived at home. I was never violent verbally or physically. 1.5 years ago I got a dui. Wife said she would stay if I quit drinking. I quit and have not had a drink since. She has told the kids(both at college) that I am mental, Alcoholic, and other things. At the holidays this year we had an argument where I told her she was tainting the kids with all negatives about me. She announced she wanted a divorce had a meeting where she made things up about me in front of my kids and that I needed a psychiatrist. Over the past 6 months our relationship I though was improving, we actually started having sex etc. After she plays me as a psyco. I start checking find out she has been on a website called Hornymatches.com I have correspondence proving sexual relations with at least 5 guys over a month and a half period. Copies of e-mails, phone records, etc. She turns 50 next month and is going through menapause, but she is very attractive for her age. The age ranges of her sex partners are 24-37 and she is working on a 19 year old. All documented. I told my kids mom is seeing other men which is why we cannot continue with our marriage, they were told I need to fix me. When I told them about the seeing other men both kids got angry at me. I have not shown then the over 100 pages of grphic documents in cluding webcam shows she has put on. Should I? Thanks
