How to find sexual chemistry with my girl?
I've been in a relationship for almost a year and a half now with my girlfriend, and from day one, sex has been a problem. To sum it all up, there is no chemistry. No vibe, flow, we like and enjoy different things sexually, are turned on by different things, and it feel awkward or just not "right". But I know that I love her, I know that I want to be with her. I know what good sex is like. I am a very sexual, intimate and passionate person. But nothing we do seems to work. I've even had to take pills just to get an erection, but most of the time, I cannot ejaculate with her. I just don't want to. This is so hard, I want her in my life, but we don't connect. I am trying to see if the chemistry will develop, but after all this time, it hasn't. What do I do?