I dated a girl for 7 months broke up for a month and got back together and the last 3 days and have been working things out. But then some people tell her a lie that I'm trying to play her and I'm cheating on her. And I don't know what to do cause she won't believe me I'm in need of some help I'm lost. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME. I love this girl

I agree, you need to talk to her. Tell her the truth. Now my question to you is, why do you think people are telling her this? Is there something more to this story then you are sharing?

Is this the same girl as the one in your other post that you want to break up with??

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We broke up because I wouldn't;t stop drinking and she wouldn't stop smoking. And we had fight over it but I have quit drinking. And the another girl I had liked forever wanted to be with me so I thought I'd give that a try since she didn't want to change me at all. And all the same people tried to tell her that I liked this girl and she didn't believe them. The same people are suppose to be my friends and are all just try to get with her. That's the whole story. And she won't let me talk to her she won't answer my phone calls or text all she says is leave me alone you broke my heart again.

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and the another girl I had liked forever wanted to be with me so I thought I'd give that a try

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There is your answer right there.You admit to liking this other girl forever.When your friends told your girl,you got mad but they were telling the truth.
Leave the ex alone.She has made her wishes clear.
Why not hook up with the girl you have liked forever and respect the ex enough to let her move on?

Leave her alone as she is asking you and see if she changes her mind when she calms down.

The thing you must remember is that after a break up, and you try someone else, exes get mad when you dare to comeback to them when your plan failed.

I suspect you have burned your bridges this time.

Enjoy being single, and maybe its for the best, as partners that have to change each other to be happy seldom succeed. Even worse when she believes your friends over you, and her friends may be right.

I'm kind of lost, she accuses you of cheating on her because her friends told her about a girl you have liked forever, which means while you were with her, and then you dated her after the break up, which was only a month break up. Then went back to your ex?

I would be listening to my friends too, they usually lead me in the right direction. You were emotionally cheating on her by liking another female and then dating her right after. I see her side to it, all you can do is give her time and space