Scared to have sex.that's right, scared.
Okay, hopefully you are done laughing enough now to read this. Lol. Anyway, I'm talking to this girl, and I'm hoping it will turn into something some day. Besides this, a serious relationship usually involves sex at some point. Problem is, that's right, you guessed it, I'm scared to have sex. Lets clear this up first, I am not a virgin. However I've only been with one other girl, and yep, she's the one who took it.
The reason why I'm scared of sex? Well to say it simply, I don't last very long. In my last relationship sex wasn't something we did very often, due to circumstances. I'm assuming this problem is probably from my lack of experience. The reason this scares me is if this new girl and I do get serious, it might cause a problem with our relationship. I'm afraid I might not amount to her expectations. The girl I was with before knew I was a virgin and was expecting the shortness. This new girl knows I'm NOT a virgin, and probably won't expect such inexperience. However, I do know that I can still perform afterwards for my partner sake, so I don't just leave them hanging. I apologize if that last bit was too personal, but it's relevant.
Okay, so the question is, am I just being paranoid about this? Should I flat out tell her if we ever come across this part of a relationship, or should I just not tell her and have her figure it out during the exercise? Are most women understanding of this, even if they are much more experienced than you are? I don't know why I'm letting this bother me so much, but it is and I need some clarity and advice. So I say thanks to you all for any advice you give. -Chillaxguy90