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  • Mar 10, 2009, 12:17 AM
    quratulain
    Run away run away I want to run away
    I am 19 year girl living in Pakistan,my parents do not love me, please I want to run away from this country please help me.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 12:30 AM
    quratulain

    For my parents they donot love me so I want to do suicide or runaway please help me!
  • Mar 10, 2009, 01:26 AM
    Clough

    Hi, quratulain!

    What is going on that is causing you to think and feel the way that you are, please?

    You will find some very helpful and caring people on this site!

    Thanks!
  • Mar 10, 2009, 09:42 PM
    quratulain

    Thank you Clough!
    What makes me think all this is that my father is a very very strict person and he would not allow to even go out of house without his permission,then did not admitted me in a proper school and changes my school frequently and I have been in my current school for a few months I do not have any friends there,then at home I have nobody who really understands me,and now my examminations are ahead,I want some friends who would listen to me.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 11:09 PM
    Clough

    Hi again, quratulain!

    Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Please don't even consider it! As far as running away, staying and trying to work out the problems will make you stronger. You're always going to be facing people who are difficult in life. There are strategies and techniques that can work when dealing with them. It just takes some knowledge of what they are and practice in using them.

    Is there a counselor at school with whom you could discuss the situation?

    Thanks!
  • Mar 12, 2009, 12:46 AM
    margdav86

    You are very young and the decision to run away is a hasty one... don't do it! Instead, focus on your education and gain as much knowledge as you can because that will be your ticket out when you're older! Maybe when you go to graduate school, you can look at getting a student visa and studying in the states... this is pretty much your way out if your parents don't support you.
  • Mar 12, 2009, 02:21 AM
    quratulain

    Thank you!
    I am actually finishing my 12th grade studies and going to undergraduate studies I will apply for student visa in usa.
  • Mar 13, 2009, 08:10 AM
    MicroMama

    Focus on your studies. With a good education you can live on your own one day and be able to support yourself and have a good life. I know it's hard but friendships will come. You have the whole rest of your life to meet people and make friends.

    You may think your parents don't love you but they probably do, and very much. Your father is being strict most likely because he loves you. Maybe he just doesn't know how to express it.

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