I'm having supervised contact twic a year , but I want to be able to see my cousin who is also 14 without supervision because I don't feel comfortable being suoervised and we used to be really close but were not as close now .

A lot would probably depend on why you have supervised visits, why they were set up this way and is this a court ordered thing.

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Originally Posted by tashiibabii

im having supervised contact twic a year , but i want to be able to see my cousin who is also 14 without supervision because i dont feel comfortable being suoervised and we used to be really close but were not as close now .

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tashiibabii, maybe you can bring a board game or some cards and just hang out and talk and stuff. Your visits are probably really important to you cousin, so I would keep going no matter how boring they are... I know it sucks you guys can't have privacy, there is probably a good reason for it, so keep up with the rules and I hope it all pays off for you and your cousin!