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  • Mar 8, 2009, 03:53 PM
    angel93
    Pregnant and scared at 16
    So I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm only 16 and I see everyone say just tell your mom well the thing is my mom passed away from cancer when I was 14 and me and my dad do not get a long well at all see I was raised more from my mom and she was born and raised in America and all it traditions my dad on the other hand was raised in Africa with all its traditions and when your kid acts up that bad there suppose to get beat (literally) that's just how it goes so I was wondering if anyone could help me... The dad is really supportive of me he actually is trying to get a second job he tells me he loves me and is going to do everything he can for me and the baby I just don't know what to do you know? I'm scared out of my mind and on top of that my whole church is going to like shun me and totally freak out especially the old people ugh I'm just so confused I want to keep my baby I really do I know its going to be extremely difficult but I'm prepared to work all day everyday to raise my child and give him/her the best I can I just don't know where I'm going to live cause I know I'm going to get kick out of my house I just know it I just don't know where to go what to do who to talk to please someone help...
  • Mar 8, 2009, 04:59 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Some people will shun you, some will talk about you behind your back, others will feel sorry for you.

    What do you do, be honest, do your best and in the end let it what happen to happen since they will all find out about it soon if you don't do anything,
  • Mar 8, 2009, 05:27 PM
    ScottGem

    Talk to your school guidance counselor.
  • Mar 8, 2009, 07:44 PM
    angel93

    We don't have one it's a small school in the church they will have a heart attack if they knew I was sexually active
  • Mar 8, 2009, 07:47 PM
    ScottGem

    They are going to find out eventually. Talk to your clergyman.

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