I had a stroke three weeks ago and now I want to have sex... I attempted and got frustrated, I like to be on top but I had to concentrate on balance and could not climax... any suggestions or ideas I would much appreciate it:D

Girl you got a stroke, you need to relax yourself and thank god to be alive, give it a few months before you go back out into the field

So you can't use the exact position , so, that will come with time ( most likely) if not you do what you can

Perhaps for the time being, try other more relaxed positions. I know that its frustrating to feel like you're not in complete control. I'm sorry about that.