The most confusing guy on earth?
I am new on this forum and have been looking at some of the other answers for any advice but I seem to be stuck in a grey area.
I met a guy a couple of weeks ago in a bar, I could tell he noticed me and he came over to me later that night to try and have a chat. My friends told me he does this with every girl so I didn't really make much of a big deal of it.
A couple of weeks later we got talking again (up until the bar actually closing and us being the last two in there) and we walked home together. I felt we got on well but he didn't ask for my number at the end of the night.
The next week again he was staring at me and I am pretty sure he is attracted to me so I decided to leave my number for him saying I needed some help with a project I have.
He calls me and we arrange to meet up for some lunch - we saty talking for around four hours but I still can't tell how he feels. He had the option to not call if he didn't want to and he didn't have to stay that long but on the other hand I felt he seemed unrelaxed and nervous.
There is an age difference between us (he is over 10 years older than me - I'm 23) and he has not had a girlfriend apparently for over 10 years but I just don't understand why a guy who does seem attracted to me isn't "seizing" the opportunity. Do I need to make myself clearer? I myself am quite shy so this is a difficult situation for me.