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  • Mar 7, 2009, 07:09 PM
    abernyy
    Will we
    Will my boyfriend and I ever get back together.. we dated for a year and broke up about a month and a half ago and I still love him but don't know if he feels the same.. we went 3 weekes without talking and then talked and it felt weird but right... but we didn't talk about us
  • Mar 7, 2009, 07:12 PM
    kp2171
    Nobody here can predict this.

    When a relationship has a break, the only thing that can mend it is that you both deal with whatever fundamental issues were involved in the break.

    And too often, people think missing the other person or the security of the relationship is a good enough reason for the issues to be ignored.

    Eventually, they'll come up again.

    And on top of that... even if issues are resolved, that doesn't mean there won't be other challenges that take their toll in time.

    So... NOBODY here can determine this. We don't know your bf/ex better than you, we don't know your situation better than you...

    And most of the time... a break means it is broken. Not always, but most of the time.
  • Mar 7, 2009, 07:15 PM
    arnimal7

    Hey there, did you guys end on good or bad terms? The fact that you guys are talking again can be a good thing. I can't tell you how many times my hsuband and I broke up and got back together before we got married. Even though you guys broke up it still might not be over. Just try to feel him out in the conversations, eventually you will find your answer. Good luck
  • Mar 7, 2009, 08:48 PM
    SirPeter
    I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago, two weeks before christmas. It was all really dreadfull and I was heart broken I had been with her for 3 1/2 years. Though they say life goes which is true.

    As for predicting if you'll get back with him then its always tricky. Depending on the terms of the breakup it could always be possible to resemble the relationship. I haven't spoke to my girlfriend for about a month now and she's now got a new boyfriend and I'm feeling all right. So don't feel down we all go through this in our life, just talk with friends and family and online like forums like this, in no-time you'll be great looking for a new boyfriend if your former love doesn't return.

    Peter
  • Mar 7, 2009, 08:50 PM
    SirPeter

    Though they say life goes on which is true **

    My apologies.

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