Me and my boyfriend are both 19. We have sex 3-4 times a week. Is that too much or to less

Please help

I don't believe it is really normal but that is quite regular, but I would say that most 19 year olds would be having sex at least once a day and probably more than that.

If you and your partner are both in agreement that that amount of sex is fine, it's fine. If sexual activity does not get in the way of other stuff, too much is not an issue.

If one of you wants to do it a lot more or less than the other, there may be a compatibility issue. Some couples are happy with once a year... I think they're weird, they don't think they're weird at all.

There is no "normal"... while many polls and surveys throw out numbers like more than once and less than twice per week, an average, as common when younger 20s-30s... and "desired" frequency often being around 3 times a week... this is skewed by many things.

Personally, when I was in college and just out... sex happened more often, depending on whether we had real private space and time. Happened less when there was more distance, didn't see each other as much, private space was hard to come by, etc...

So...

What compels you to ask? Are you concerned you are having too much? Not enough? What's the reason behind signing up and asking?

Normal is an average of all figures, and is pretty meaningless, really. And not all 19-year olds can even see each other every day alone LETMETELLU, so don't start saying it's too little.

Normal varies from person-to-person and so long as they are generally satisfied with it, it doesn't do any good to compare to others.