Why is it that when a guy goes out with a million girls and gets pleasure everyone "honors" him like "damnn guy, i can't believe you got that girll all over youu!" and then when a girl goes out with a million guys and gets pleasure everyone is just like "OMG what an effin slut, whore, etccc." and she gets a bad reputation and the guy just keeps on pimping all over the world.


Not that it's happening to me, but it happens in school everyday and I see it right in front of my eyes and it's just a thought out of curiousity that I wanted to ask, so any answers are welcomed :)

Because men don't think of sex in the same way that women do. They are stupid. I'm waiting for my reddie for this one.

Joe can have sex with the same number of people that Mary does and he's a hero and she's a slut. She is supposed to respect her body more, it's a temple. Men are designed to spread their seed, and some men just don't know how to let their emotions take hold of the reins, they let their pants do that.

I honestly don't know any other way to explain this...

I won't give you a reddie, but I STRONGLY disagree because not ALL men are like this. Some guys actually think sex is more of relationship thing rather than dating a hundred girls. I have kissed my fair share of women but sex, not even off one hand(TMI for some) but I have always valued sex as I think it is respectable. I also don't keep those types of guys in my company as I don't respect those guys and will be the first one to tell you that they are manwhores.

So I agree some guys are like this, but do not generalize as I can classify all women are bi-polar but I like to think(especially after this forum) that there are women that are civil headed around this world.

Not all guys are like that is the first thing you should know.

Next, the reason is because in general, it's a lot easier to find a guy who puts out than a girl. Also, in general girls tend to have more of a emotional connection with sex, while in general, guys tend to think "Damn, this feels good"...

By the way, guys are only pimps to other guys. Most girls will think that guy is a player. Don't blame the guy though. Blame all the girls who know and still do it.

Also, you're life will be a lot better with fewer sex partners. STD's are pimpin.

I won't give you a REDDIE either CM ;)

I think there is a small case to what your saying although I wouldn't generalise it.

I agree with Rome though!! And yes Rome TMI LOL

I also think you'll find the guys that pimp themselves around generally do so with the so called "Effin Sl*ts"

All answers were very helpful and appreciated :) thanks! I guess ill have to share them with a few boys and girls in my school!

That's the double standard we have in society, to justify keeping females in their place, and men can do whatever they please. That's changing though, as many guys are into monogamy, and trust, and loyalty. You just never hear about us though, just the loudmouths who think with the little head, and the sluts they conquer.

Yeah, I'm currently 18 and a senior and I see this still at this age. It's just like a what the hell thing. I don't know I was just wondering :)

I think the generalization has really come around on men.

Now it isn't anymore respectable for guys to "spread their seed". Now they have their own names for behaving in that manner.

I think that the time when anyone looked up to people who have meaningless sex is over. I think it's frowned upon more no matter what gender you are.

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

I think the generalization has really come around on men.

Now it isn't anymore respectable for guys to "spread their seed". Now they have their own names for behaving in that manner.

I think that the time when anyone looked up to people who have meaningless sex is over. I think it's frowned upon more no matter what gender you are.

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To expand on this, I think it is also more of a maturity thing. There are certain ages, and more importantly, maturity levels, that think the coolest guys screw the most women that they can. Usually from the high school period until you graduate college (some men NEVER get rid of that mentality). This period of "coolness" also usually ends when they end up knocking some girl up... bringing about forced attricion.

It helps to grow up in a culture of gentlemen, and where treating ladies like they should be treated is valued as manly, rather than as cowardly. I would hope, that as you get older and wiser, you start to see the importance of actually developing a relationship, and not just getting laid, as there is a HUGE difference. Personally I find it more of a challenge to get to know someone intellectually more than getting to know them sexually is... some guys, however, just go for the easiest thing they can find, and, on that same token, some girls just open up their legs to anything that has a pulse.

It is easy to make generalizations when society projects them on to you... I tend to believe that women think that all men are mind-readers, as they think we know what they want without even telling us...

Also to expand on Kc, I also tend to believe girls think we are mind readers and I am sick of asking what is wrong and you get this as a response "you know what you did" No I don't if I did I wouldn't ask the freaking question!

Come on Rome, our response is "Nothing" while we scowl and curse under our breath.

No doubt you do know what you did!

But furthermore on that aspect, yes women are bad with have preconceived responses they wish to hear. What bothers me is when I directly say what I want and in that male tune out thing that men have they never even heard it... so then he "wakes" up to go "What's wrong?" well the response is you would know what you did if you were paying attention for the last fifteen minutes instead of the tuned out "Yes, dear" and "uh-huh".

Back on topic... sorry.

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Because men ...are stupid.

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Grandma, is that you? Seriously... my grandma would say that... "men are dumb and girls are mean"... that's about the sagest advice ever told.

Seriously, I do think there is a double standard, with guys getting away with more.

We've had members here, frustrated with how, years and years after HS, shed be called a slut for having a one night stand.

How many girls who called other girls a "skank" in HS for being pregnant were having sex themselves.

And while I think the guys get away with murder, I think its often the girls judging other girls that's really harsh. I had a friend in college called all kinds of terrible names just because she had a great body and big rack. The judgement was terrible, unwarranted, and mean.

Yet another factor is how rude/cruel females are to other females...

While men don't share that jealous/caddy behavior...

So not only are men willing to point out the easy one to easy other, women are willing to point out the s**ts to anyone who will listen.

While men may high five in the bathroom about their last score, it's not information as readily shared as who are the girls giving it up are. And women don't as quickly run to their other friends and brag about how "he did me and never called again."

ALL RELATED ON HIGH SCHOOL BEHAVIORS.

Justwantfair, yes I agree we do tune out sometimes but in our defense, trying to talk to us while we play videogames, watch a sport on TV or a good movie, we CANNOT be held responsible for this lack of attention ha ha

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Justwantfair, yes I agree we do tune out sometimes but in our defense, trying to talk to us while we play videogames, watch a sport on tv or a good movie, we CANNOT be held responsible for this lack of attention ha ha

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Haha, and yet you do know women better than this...

You can and will be held accountable... ;)

That is where the complaint started... poor never ending circle.

Men can never win.

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Men can never win.

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Justy
Us men are happy to let you women win , it helps keep the peace.:cool:

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Justy
Us men are happy to let you women win , it helps keep the peace.:cool:

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Very smart man. :D

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Very smart man. :D

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I resemble that remark :D

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Men can never win.

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I thought the "can pee while standing up, drinking a beer with one hand and a remote in the other" counted for something.

And killing bugs. Don't we win a little something something for squishing bugs?