Me and my boyfriend have been toguether for a year and 9months, we are the sweetes couple and in love etc.
He went on a tripp to Hawaii (dont worry he was faithful) and when he return he was over in love whit me he said he miss me so much, (and like the distance made him seem more in love9 that we actually are staring to think of moving toguether or marriage.
But after that week, that we talk for a more serious relationship, I went to my house for like a week then next time we meet he's change..

He is not iniciating sex, doesn't tell me he loves me anymore unless I talk to him, its short on the phone, really busy in work sudendly, and after 3 week I finally got him to have sex whit me it was short and he got soft while having the act of sex... :,(
That as never happened before...
I talkt to him and said tat everything is OK.. but it doesn't feel like it to me..

Don't know what could it be, please tell me your opinion.

How old are you guys?
Could it be that he IS just under a lot of pressure at work, which is causing him to be too tired to have sex and a bit short tempered. Maybe talk to him again but try not to sound as though your having a go at him. Ask him if he feels OK and if he's having problems at work . Maybe try making him a meal after work and giving him a relaxing massage and let nature take its course... xx

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Originally Posted by bunnyGirl1

Me and my boyfriend have been toguether for a year and 9months, we are the sweetes couple and in love etc.
He went on a tripp to hawaii (dont worry he was faithful) and wen he return he was over in love whit me he said he miss me soo much, (and like the distance made him seem more in love9 that we actually are staring to think of moving toguether or marriage.
But after that week, that we talk for a more serious relationship, i went to my house for like a week then next time we meet hes change..

He is not iniciating sex, doesnt tell me he loves me anymore unless i talk to him, its short on the phone, really busy in work sudendly, and after 3 week i finally got him to have sex whit me it was short and he got soft while having the act of sex... :,(
That as never happend before...
i talkt to him and said tat everything is ok.. but it dosnt feel like it to me..

Dont know what could it be, please tell me your opinion.

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Question #1... just how old are you both. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but
It really sounds like you are 14.