All was perfectly good, until her ex appeared in the scene.
Im a 21 year old guy who dated this girl for the past 5 months. This girl was REALLY into me all the way from the beginning; however, I wasn't too much interested in her at first... As time passed by, I started to gain more confidence and got convinced that this relationship could be upgraded into a serious one... All those 5 months that we were dating, she was really upset because I didn't wanted to take the next step... She was very in love with me...
St Valentine's Day came up and I bought her a great present and finally took the next step, and she accepted.
Here comes the interesting part... One week after we were in the serious relationship, she went with me to a party at a friend's house; and there was her ex, a guy she didn't saw in the past 7 months... All was cool, two days later she broke up with me because she was confused with this other guy.. she told me she love me a lot but couldn't be with me because if so, she will be being dishonest and unfaithful. The thing is all evidence suggest me that she doesn't want to comeback with her ex, but as she tells me, she is not comfortable with those emotions she is feeling lately.
Im really pissed cause I finally saw a real relationship taking place, and I really want to be with her, but she is not calling me (she always was the one who made the calls), when I call her she is not the same as before as a looooooot less lovely but pushy, and she is acting very strangely when we are casually together at college. Also if she is being honest with me and telling me that she really likes me, why she did not ask me for time and a little space so that she can make up her mind but prefers to break up and lose this unique opportunity?
Any thoughts?