hey I'm in a bit of a complicated situation here.. My x and I broke up a for a about 3months got back together for another 4 months, and we didn't see each other much and just turned out doing a lot of texts till I realized she didn't seem to interested anymore so I got straight to the point and said if this is all you feel for me Im through with this. Yet she said she'd miss me and all that yada yada I haven't talked to her since, any suggestions? Im assuming if she actually misses me I should just wait for her cause I know I can't go back to her or that's weak.

Listen to your gut. If she really missed you it would be glaringly obvious.

If she hasn't tried to get back with you yet... it might be best to stop putting your life on hold and start moving on.

If she wanted you back, she would definitely let you know. If she hasn't come crawling back yet... there's your sign.

Don't put your life on hold waiting for her. You will waste SO much time that could be spent bettering yourself and moving forward from this.

Yeah she hasn't tried yet, trust me I'm not putting my life on hold I've been with other girls already I just miss her for some reason, I'm not near obsessed.. I guess ill just let it be then.

Just let everything settle. Don't rush headlong in to your next relationship. Give your mind a chance to heal from this. Learn from your experience and apply this knowledge to your next relationship.

Good Luck!

It's natural to think about and miss someone when a relationship is over. But trust me, you'll hurt more by trying to hang on to something that's one-sided. As the others said, if she wanted to keep the relationship, she'd be doing all she could to save it. Take these words and go forward: She's just not that into you