My fiancé and I have been arguing every since Jan 3rd of this year about dumb stuff, from August to December of last year, we were fine, he proposed on Thanksgiving Day, I don't know what the problem is.

Like tonight we argued over the fact that I asked him a question why was he using a steel spoon to cook with in a teflon pan, and that started it. He came out and said that is what he has always used and if I could find him another spoon, then good as a matter of act I won't use this pan anymore, I will use the other skillet and I looked at him and said shut up Deb to myself, its like we've been arguing over stupid things.

Please help me. I love him very much but, I'm tired of him critiquing everything I say to him.

This section is not for posting questions I would recommend you re post this in the relationships forum, under family and people.

Thanks :)

Sorry my mistake :D I thought I saw intro.. I must be tired or something :eek:

Hi, browneyes50!

Greetings and WELCOME to the site! I just moved your question that you had posted in Introductions to this forum topic area so that it will get the most exposure to those who are best able to answer it. Introductions is for people to introduce themselves and we try to not ask questions there.

It can be a little confusing when first learning how to use this site! Your question will get noticed much more in this forum topic area.

We would appreciate it if you would return to Introductions sometime to tell us a little about yourself though, if you would be willing to do that.

Concerning your question, have you sat down with him and communicated with him about the way that you've been thinking and feeling? Also, how long have you known him, please?

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by neverme

Sorry my mistake :D I thought I saw intro..I must be tired or something :eek:

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You did see this as being posted in Introductions, neverme! Looks like I was moving it and posting on it at the same time that you were posting on it!

Thanks!

LOL I'm not going insane! Woo Hoo!! :D

I would suggest communication. It's the key to any healthy relationship and tell him that he doesn't need to take things so personally.